Worship: When self protection means a ‘life lacking’

The cost of walls

Once there was an astounding castle owned by the Castlereagh family, one of the most princely residences in Ireland. But the ancient home fell into decay. The usual happened. When peasants wanted to repair a road or even construct a pigsty, they scavenged stone from the old dwelling. The stones were already craftily cut, available without digging and carrying for long distances.

When the descendant and heir Lord Londonderry visited his castle, he determined to immediately end the theft of the stones. This was not only his legacy, but also one of the greatest glories of Ireland. So he gave orders to his agent that the castle be enclosed with a six-foot wall, believing this would keep out the thieves.

Years later he returned. To his astonishment, the castle was gone, vanished into thin air. In its place, there was a huge wall enclosing nothing. He sent for his agent and asked why his orders had been ignored. The agent insisted that the job had been done.

“But where is the castle?” asked Londonderry.

“The castle? I built the wall with it, my Lord! Why should I go for miles to get materials, when the finest stones in Ireland are beside me?”

Sometimes the walls we build ultimately destroy the very thing we want to protect.

We live in a vulnerable world. It’s tempting to withdraw. The last thing many people want is to feel unprotected and emotionally exposed. So they put up walls to shield against threats or even uncomfortable conversations.

Churches can be guilty of putting up buildings and creating subcultures that seem remote from everyday life, in spite of Jesus’ approach — living among the most vulnerable. Our buildings can become walls that corrupt the way within, which was never really about church, but always about being a blessing to the world.

Vulnerability is openness to the possibility of being wounded. Paradoxically, it’s essential to reconciliation and healing.

In “A Different Drum,” M. Scott Peck wrote, “There is no way that we can live a rich life unless we are willing to suffer repeatedly, experiencing depression and despair, fear and anxiety, grief and sadness, anger and the agony of forgiving, confusion and doubt, criticism and rejection. A life lacking these emotional upheavals will not only be useless to ourselves, it will be useless to others. We cannot heal without being willing to be hurt.”

Our world needs healing. I need healing, and so do you.

Jesus taught that the only way to be healed — the only way to salvation — is through vulnerability.

In north Oak Cliff, people are constantly remodeling. Walls are torn down, new structures built up, fences growing higher. As our community engages in this remodeling process, what walls need to come down? How do racism, classism and fear keep us from being good neighbors?

What about in your life? What brave thing do you need to do?

Brent McDougal  is pastor of Cliff Temple Baptist Church. The Worship section is a regular feature underwritten by Advocate Publishing and by the neighborhood business people and churches listed on these pages. For information about helping support the Worship section, call 214.560.4202.

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Brent McDougal
Brent McDougal is pastor of Cliff Temple Baptist Church. His monthly Oak Cliff Advocate column appears in the worship section, which is underwritten by Advocate Publishing and by the neighborhood business people and churches listed on those pages. Call 214.560.4202 or email for advertising information.

One Comment

  1. GeneP54 June 29, 2017 at 2:12 PM

    Sooooo…..you’re saying that we need to allow ourselves to be continually abused or we are useless. That when we allow others to misuse us, put us through ’emotional upheavals’, hurt us then we just let God heal us and then set ourselves up to do it all again and in that we become ‘useful to ourselves and useful to others’.
    I don’t think so.
    And no. Jesus didn’t teach us that the only way to salvation is through vulnerability. He taught us that the only way to salvation is through HIM. That “whosoever believes on HIM shall have everlasting life”.
    And no. He didn’t teach us to be vulnerable. In Eph. 6, He said to “put on the whole armor of God so that you may stand against the wiles of the devil”. And then it goes on to describe each piece of that armor. He then tells us to speak BOLDLY because we are ambassadors of God. (In several places of the Bible we are told these things).
    He doesn’t tell us to make ourselves vulnerable. Just the exact opposite. We’re to fight for righteousness, not cower to it and give in to allowing our ‘castle’ to be destroyed.
    See, the King in your story lost his castle because he wasn’t there to fight for it. He didn’t armor it. He ignored it and then was shocked when it was gone. God tells us to ‘boldly care for our castles’, not give in to social pressures, or societal wiles, but to focus on HIM and HE will take care of us. The ‘walls’ that we need to build are those of His Word.
    Please, sir.. be careful what you preach. Your duty is to preach the Word of God AS IT IS WRITTEN. Not encourage others to be weak, and barren of fruit, and vulnerable, and then tell them to do these things is the only way that they are ‘useful’. Even common sense will tell you that these are the things that destroy men’s souls, people’s lives.

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